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1. According to you, is it worth it for teenagers to have dating in their early years?
A: No because, they’re still very young to have a relationship in a ‘special’ condition with the opposite gender. Dating is a complicated thing teenagers might not understand yet and it also force them to cope with their heartache when they’re broke up which is a very hard thing to get rid of.
2. What is the suitable age for dating?
A: Maybe… 15? Or when they’re on their 8th or 9th grade. But there are so many teenagers that started dating in their early 15 and even elementary students also started dating already. But I think it would be okay if it’s around 15.
3. Is it okay if parents taking interference on their children’s relationship? (in what way)
A: it’ll be okay if their children started to putting aside study or when their children started to do unusual behavior like going out often, going home late, hanging out with their friends so much and do bad things. But if they’re not, and being in a relationship made them study and do good things even more, I think taking interference is not needed.
4. How will you know whether you are suffering a kind dating abusive?
A: it’s when I started to cry a lot instead of smile a lot. I mean it’s when my boyfriend started to tell me which person I can be friend with and which are I have to stay away with even with people I know for a long time before I know him. Or when he told me to not hanging out with my best friends which is has nothing to do with our relationship. Or to be simple, it’s when I started to feel he’s becoming very ridiculously protective with simple things he shouldn’t worry about.
5. How come you solve those suffering?
A: I will talked to him first at how uncomfortable I am by his protectiveness and if he still acted like that, maybe I choose to breaking up with him instead. Because if it’s still going on for another months or maybe years, it will becoming worse and the possibility for me suffering would be bigger.
6. In case you need professional help, who would it be?
A: my parents. Mom first and if it’s not working I’ll asked my dad. I think I don’t really have much to say here because I believe every parent that saw their child suffered for any kind of suffering they will gladly help. Instead of us that asking for a help I think they will be the first one who gave us a helping hand.
